after weeks of telling people we had "all the major details taken care of" i realized on saturday (during a meeting with one of our lovely day-of coordinators, alicia of in the now weddings) that we are actually missing a key player. an officiant. you know, the person who actually.. marries us. so, i need to get on that.
at least we will have good food, music and atmosphere, even if we don't manage to get legally married!